A month ago, I made a big decision to start cleaning up the circle of friends. Those who were familiar with each other, boring, affectable and annoying were all ruthlessly delimited by me, so I rushed into the small dark room.
I am a very unsocial person, especially on the Internet. I can't call myself "good friends" who can't bear to see each other.
However, because of his introverted shyness, he is even more afraid of being forgotten and abandoned in the big data era. He is not a launch tower, so he tries to be a follower. He carefully maintains contact with the outside world with mechanical praise and polite comments.
Even if two-thirds of the people in my wechat friends list are dying, I still hope that if they occasionally scan my name, they will come up with a friendly person who likes to praise and does not mean to praise.
Suddenly one day, I found that I was occupied by the so-called circle of friends most of the time. I was living in chaos in the mechanical action of brushing and praising. After watching the 360 degree love show, wechat merchants started yelling at the burning version of positive energy early in the morning. The cute babies that mothers used to shoot were actually not cute at all. They begged for praise and sent tickets for lemon cups. They had to vote for the children led by a friend's aunt in the middle of the night. So many "no turning is not Chinese", "private videos" and "Amazing Secrets" are as ugly as psoriasis in the alley Small advertisement
However, the excitement is only theirs, and I have nothing. Even if I have been familiar with all the feeble jokes of "brother in the cold" and followed "being a lady" for another love, I know clearly that I can't even remember the infinite plan of "dream sister", and I have helped with several votes of "the most beautiful mother" and "the most cute baby".
In this way, I became the most competent "friend" in wechat, and the professional praise party could send all kinds of comments skillfully without brain. But what about myself? My life is not so beautiful and happy, but it takes time. If you close this app, everything goes as usual. If you really meet me, no one will give me a smile because of my praise day and night.
We are always yelling about "breaking away from home" every day, but you know what, the most important thing is our endless circle of friends. So I put the black five into the small black room, goodbye, low-end love show party, no brain forward party. Goodbye, inspirational will become the next micro merchants of Ma Yun, chicken soup with automatic emetic function, and people who ask for praise, forward and vote. We'll see you again. Don't be sad. If I'm bored, I'll go to visit you in the dark room with a novelty hunting basket.
It has been nearly a month since I blocked my circle of friends. The world is really quiet and comfortable. I only leave two kinds of people who are really good with me and care about their recent situation and are really interesting to brush their circle of friends. The passive and soft time that used to be spent on it has a more substantial place to go.
To tell you the truth, even a subscription number that you love dearly and comes according to your interests will always push things that don't take care of you. What's more, a big living person who makes you feel bored every time. Do you expect him to suddenly open his mind and bring forth new ideas one day? The black five in the circle of friends are just like scum men. Those who should enter the small black room should say goodbye to him earlier, which will cost them a lot Good times are a pity.
In the so-called big data era, for example, when the forest is big, all kinds of birds have their own high-quality and poor quality information. You should cultivate your own golden eyes, determination and self-discipline. Don't be led by others in this vast space. You should choose your favorite and interesting.
This is true of the circle of friends, microblog, and all Internet social networking. When they fold the heavy topics into several crisscross dimensions, and click on the complicated hype in a circle, you should have the vision to break several clear straight lines from it, not to be mechanical, not to follow the bad wind, not to be ugly.
So, is it time to go back to those books. The Internet gives everyone a good feeling that they can become an encyclopedia. However, the more convenient the information is, the cheaper the information will be. The fragmented information will come in an uproar, roughly like the chiffon clothes sold by Taobao.
In recent days, Zhang Dai's words about watching the snow in the pavilion in the middle of the lake are still the most popular words in my mind. He said: "for three days of heavy snow, the sound of birds in the lake is absolutely amazing. It was the day when the day was set, and I went to the pavilion in the middle of the lake to see the snow. Rime and Dang, sky and cloud, mountain and water, up and down a white. The shadow on the lake is only a mark on the long dike, a little Pavilion in the middle of the lake, a mustard with the rest of the boat, and two or three people in the boat. " I can't help but feel that if life can live such a high level of loneliness, even if it's because I no longer like it, and I'm silent and completely forgotten by the world, it's nothing to do with me.
If you don't say much, you will become the chief culprit of wasting everyone's time.
Remember to close a few people to the small black room, make time to read some books.